more or less, it makes me upset that men constantly have access to me and my feelings; they never shy away from saying things to me that are upsetting or triggering, and unlike when i’m talking to women, if i ask them to stop it immediately becomes a matter of dominance. it’s a show of weakness or disrespect to them to bow out of a conversation with a man. they demand that you engage. they demand that you perform. and if you don’t, you face ultimatums: you aren’t what/who you say you are if you refuse to speak to me about this, because of my dogmatic opinions of how to social justice.
and i’m just, i’m done. i don’t want to anymore and it’s difficult to make myself believe i don’t have to.
we have to make refusing to engage tough. we have to make refusing to engage cool. also, we just have to refuse to engage.
Please start an Ask Pussy advice tumblr. Pleaaaaase.
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